Yurassik

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  1. Confused....

    Is exactly what I want to do, but it costs much to me. I try date with other girls but it doesn't works, i'm still too much tied to her. I know the best would just be apart from her to see how things goes... Well actually is the only thing possible to do. Only I don't know if is good idea to talk openly to her, I mean, I want try to be her friend only, but i still feel strong love for her. Even I think she would not pay much attention about my feelings now. Now I try have no contact with her since yesterday but for me is already like a life. I would love someone hit my head and make me forget last months really Plus, I can't listen Regina Spektor anymore...
  2. Confused....

    Hi, well is not that kind of depression with her spending time at home crying or do nothing. She had not easy past and she didn't had an adolescence, so now she is just trying everything she has hands on. Sometimes is really like she doesn't understand feelings of who is close to her... Anyway is not possible to be togheter if she see relationship like limit to her freedom. I'll support her, even if sometimes i still feel some loud pain inside.
  3. Confused....

    I know, you are right. Sometimes is hard to realize that even if you fit with someone, there can be something wrong... I had love and hope, now I have only love and i feel empty. Just matter of time i guess... Tnx for advices
  4. Confused....

    I know. First step should be make her understand her state. She comes really from hard familiar situation, and she is in cure with a psychologist. She even knows that something is wrong with her, but she can't change it. I knew everything before start relationship with her, and i was even happy to be someone that bring some sun in her life, but, it seems, it wasn't enough. I don't say that i can do something about her depression, I can, eventually, only support her. But I don't know which level of attention i should give her, if too much feeling can make things worse.
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    I don't know why I registered here and started write, well, I know why here, but I don't know why I am doing... Story is... 2 months and few days ago I have met my friend in Poland, we are both Italians, and his girlfriend is Polish. I didn't had time to spend there, I was to him just to eat lunch togheter then I left. He sent me sms later telling me that he was in home with her gf's family and there was a girl that was interested in know me. So far... we started write email, plenty of them, about 50 everyday. There was much in common, we decided to met, I would go there... We couldn't wait, she came to me before. We spent night in the sea watching stars and listening Samson (that's why here) and it become "our" song. I went to her, everything was perfect, like a dream. She decided to move to Italy, because was the only way to let things works but... suddenly everything change and she become cold as ice. I ran to her and we set up some peace but then it was all break again. She told me is not ready for deep relationship (we are both about 30), that she didn't had any love feeling for me, but it is not true. I was wondering all the time, almost going crazy, if she was that cold bitch she become. Today I was so angry at her, because i found some her lies. Then my friend call me.... She has serious depression... What to do?
  6. Confused....

    I don't know why I registered here and started write, well, I know why here, but I don't know why I am doing... Story is... 2 months and few days ago I have met my friend in Poland, we are both Italians, and his girlfriend is Polish. I didn't had time to spend there, I was to him just to eat lunch togheter then I left. He sent me sms later telling me that he was in home with her gf's family and there was a girl that was interested in know me. So far... we started write email, plenty of them, about 50 everyday. There was much in common, we decided to met, I would go there... We couldn't wait, she came to me before. We spent night in the sea watching stars and listening Samson (that's why here) and it become "our" song. I went to her, everything was perfect, like a dream. She decided to move to Italy, because was the only way to let things works but... suddenly everything change and she become cold as ice. I ran to her and we set up some peace but then it was all break again. She told me is not ready for deep relationship (we are both about 30), that she didn't had any love feeling for me, but it is not true. I was wondering all the time, almost going crazy, if she was that cold bitch she become. Today I was so angry at her, because i found some her lies. Then my friend call me.... She has serious depression... What to do?