monsterinyourcloset

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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from sweetness in my lungs in Wee Rants   
    I don't know whether this belongs in wee rants or major rants because it really isn't a rant at all but the 'stix has always been a really supportive and lovely place to me. Those who have been here long enough have seen me around and may have seen my posts pertaining to the beginning of my relationship four years ago.
    I'm beginning to have some serious doubts. I'm 19 and don't know who I am or what I want. There are a lot of problems between us that have been sitting untreated for years and I don't know how to deal with them. There's also a lot of good. We live together. We have stuff. I'm scared. The question of us lasting has never really been an issue, but now I'm not sure if I want to stay; if I can stay, if it would be healthy for me to stay. Before Christmas I was starting to worry that our next fight might be our last. Then we had a fight, then a discussion, decided it was an overreaction and to "work on it". That should have resolved it, we should be doing better, and in truth there is no Big Thing right now, no cause for a fight of any sort of magnitude. I just feel done. And I'm still worried that the next fight will be our last.
    I got really drunk last night and poured my heart out to a couple good friends. They gave me some very good advice and support and I thought I had made some decisions. Then I came home, and now I don't know what to do at all.
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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from RJLupin2 in photos of ourselves !   
    Hello all! I have a Regina-realted story which coincides with some photos!
    Today at work I was rining up a couple of customers - two young ladies, one was buying a skirt (I work in a womens' clothing store)- when one of the girls commented on my hair. She said:
    "You have really wonderful curls!" To which I blushed (I always blush)
    "Oh, wow, thanks!"
    "They're like... have you heard of Regina Spektor?" She went on,
    "Oh my God, YES. She's kind of one of my favourite artists of all time, like, since I was 11!" I was a bit excited. Despite my curls no one has ever told me I looked like Reg before.
    "Me too!" She exclaimed, "well not since I was 11, but I love her, she's definitely amazing." We went on gushing about how we both loved Regina's music and I mentioned that I saw her once in concert.
    "Me too!" Exclaimed the girl, "it was in Toronto."
    "Me too!" I shouted, "like, a long time ago" The girl agrees, starts attempting to count back the years and determine how long ago it was.
    "4 years?" I ask,
    "yeah! I think so!"
    "And Cirque du Soleil was set up beside the venue?"
    "Yeah, and it was way out by the water?"
    "Yeah! Out past harbourfront! Oh my god!"
    "Wow! That was such a good show!"
    We talked a bit more and her friend payed for the skirt and they were on their way. Before they left she told me that since I had such similar hair I would totally be able to pull off the little bun-thing that Regina sports in the music video for Fidelity. I'd never tried that look before, so I went home and gave it a shot - here are the pictures.
    And if that girl happens to be a 'stixite - heya! You really made my night


    And one of Reg:

    My hair is currently a bit curlier than her's in the video, I'll have to try it again sometime.
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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from RJLupin2 in pictures and videos of interest...   
    Oh hey that's me. 
    Also, this happened:

    because we don't actually know the words to The Book of Love
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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from RJLupin2 in pictures and videos of interest...   
    Oh hey that's me. 
    Also, this happened:

    because we don't actually know the words to The Book of Love
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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from RJLupin2 in photos of ourselves !   
    Hello all! I have a Regina-realted story which coincides with some photos!
    Today at work I was rining up a couple of customers - two young ladies, one was buying a skirt (I work in a womens' clothing store)- when one of the girls commented on my hair. She said:
    "You have really wonderful curls!" To which I blushed (I always blush)
    "Oh, wow, thanks!"
    "They're like... have you heard of Regina Spektor?" She went on,
    "Oh my God, YES. She's kind of one of my favourite artists of all time, like, since I was 11!" I was a bit excited. Despite my curls no one has ever told me I looked like Reg before.
    "Me too!" She exclaimed, "well not since I was 11, but I love her, she's definitely amazing." We went on gushing about how we both loved Regina's music and I mentioned that I saw her once in concert.
    "Me too!" Exclaimed the girl, "it was in Toronto."
    "Me too!" I shouted, "like, a long time ago" The girl agrees, starts attempting to count back the years and determine how long ago it was.
    "4 years?" I ask,
    "yeah! I think so!"
    "And Cirque du Soleil was set up beside the venue?"
    "Yeah, and it was way out by the water?"
    "Yeah! Out past harbourfront! Oh my god!"
    "Wow! That was such a good show!"
    We talked a bit more and her friend payed for the skirt and they were on their way. Before they left she told me that since I had such similar hair I would totally be able to pull off the little bun-thing that Regina sports in the music video for Fidelity. I'd never tried that look before, so I went home and gave it a shot - here are the pictures.
    And if that girl happens to be a 'stixite - heya! You really made my night


    And one of Reg:

    My hair is currently a bit curlier than her's in the video, I'll have to try it again sometime.
  6. Like
    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from RJLupin2 in photos of ourselves !   
    Hello all! I have a Regina-realted story which coincides with some photos!
    Today at work I was rining up a couple of customers - two young ladies, one was buying a skirt (I work in a womens' clothing store)- when one of the girls commented on my hair. She said:
    "You have really wonderful curls!" To which I blushed (I always blush)
    "Oh, wow, thanks!"
    "They're like... have you heard of Regina Spektor?" She went on,
    "Oh my God, YES. She's kind of one of my favourite artists of all time, like, since I was 11!" I was a bit excited. Despite my curls no one has ever told me I looked like Reg before.
    "Me too!" She exclaimed, "well not since I was 11, but I love her, she's definitely amazing." We went on gushing about how we both loved Regina's music and I mentioned that I saw her once in concert.
    "Me too!" Exclaimed the girl, "it was in Toronto."
    "Me too!" I shouted, "like, a long time ago" The girl agrees, starts attempting to count back the years and determine how long ago it was.
    "4 years?" I ask,
    "yeah! I think so!"
    "And Cirque du Soleil was set up beside the venue?"
    "Yeah, and it was way out by the water?"
    "Yeah! Out past harbourfront! Oh my god!"
    "Wow! That was such a good show!"
    We talked a bit more and her friend payed for the skirt and they were on their way. Before they left she told me that since I had such similar hair I would totally be able to pull off the little bun-thing that Regina sports in the music video for Fidelity. I'd never tried that look before, so I went home and gave it a shot - here are the pictures.
    And if that girl happens to be a 'stixite - heya! You really made my night


    And one of Reg:

    My hair is currently a bit curlier than her's in the video, I'll have to try it again sometime.
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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from RJLupin2 in New music we should all hear   
    Here are some friends of mine! I saw them play the other day and was right impressed with them. Especially their guitarist, who happens to be legally blind. He can shred a kickass guitar solo on his mandolin, too.
    http://www.golongmusic.com/#
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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from kaoir in Good News Thread!   
    Man, kittens are the best! You're gunna have a hard time bringing yourself to give them away, especially since she looks like a Siamese cat, and ohmygoodness have you seen (even part) Siamese kittens? Good luck, and I hope they all come through healthy.
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    monsterinyourcloset reacted to kaoir in Good News Thread!   
    Yay, congrats! It's good to see an "old" member around here.
    My good news : This little girl has been abandonned and we rescued her! We called her Echo (because when you meow at her she always meows back). Isn't she adorable?

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    monsterinyourcloset reacted to kaoir in Good News Thread!   
    Yeah! I'm super happy for you. There is nothing better than a spacious apartment.
    The cat we rescued is actually pregnant (kittens everywhere, youhou!). We've already found people who want to adopt her kittens. I just hope everything will be ok!
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    monsterinyourcloset got a reaction from sweetness in my lungs in Wee Rants   
    I don't know whether this belongs in wee rants or major rants because it really isn't a rant at all but the 'stix has always been a really supportive and lovely place to me. Those who have been here long enough have seen me around and may have seen my posts pertaining to the beginning of my relationship four years ago.
    I'm beginning to have some serious doubts. I'm 19 and don't know who I am or what I want. There are a lot of problems between us that have been sitting untreated for years and I don't know how to deal with them. There's also a lot of good. We live together. We have stuff. I'm scared. The question of us lasting has never really been an issue, but now I'm not sure if I want to stay; if I can stay, if it would be healthy for me to stay. Before Christmas I was starting to worry that our next fight might be our last. Then we had a fight, then a discussion, decided it was an overreaction and to "work on it". That should have resolved it, we should be doing better, and in truth there is no Big Thing right now, no cause for a fight of any sort of magnitude. I just feel done. And I'm still worried that the next fight will be our last.
    I got really drunk last night and poured my heart out to a couple good friends. They gave me some very good advice and support and I thought I had made some decisions. Then I came home, and now I don't know what to do at all.